Now to plan a move......what, when, how, & why?(we know the where)

This is not easy at the best of times, but it becomes increasingly difficult when you are on a different wave link than some of those involved!  

  

 

Got another dreaded call!!

This morning I found out that a second room is available for Mom at Vilna.........I just want to SCREAM!!!  

I need someone to take over the rational part of my brain function..........mine is DONE!  

Another trip to the farm......

leaving me feeling SICK!!!

I don't even know what to report here.....nothing is good, I hate feeling like I can't do anything!!  I feel so against everything, I don't agree with anything, I can't do anything.......not even talk about it!!!  

It's awful to have such strong different opinions......it really makes being rational very HARD!!!!  

One thing I found out this weekend.....it seems small, but has really struck a nerve!!!  Mom was taken for a flu & pneumonia shot!!   This is something I KNOW she is against, under normal circumstances she would NEVER take these shots!  

For me, it's not the fact that she got the shot, it's that fact that her wishes were not considered(especially when she cannot stand up for herself)!  It was given to her because someone made a choice for her, one they know she wouldn't make for herself....I don't understand that!!!  I thought a guardian was suppose to make choices that are in the best interest of the person you are caring for??? It is my belief her best interest would be to follow her wishes?  

I can't imagine taking making a choice for someone you know they are totally against........that just doesn't seem fair!!!!  

All I can say, is thank goodness for Daryl & Lori......

Today Mom scores 4

Here is the scale for the Mini Mental test that Mom gets on a regular basis!  

Scoring

The maximum score on the Mini Mental State Exam is 30. In general, scores fall into four categories:24 – 30: "normal" range

20 – 23: mild cognitive impairment or possible early-stage/mild Alzheimer's disease
10 – 19: middle-stage/moderate Alzheimer's disease
0 – 9: late-stage/severe Alzheimer's disease

Although the Mini Mental State Exam and its scoring guidelines are useful, the MMSE shouldn't be used independently to make a diagnosis, nor should any other singular aspect of the diagnostic process. A diagnosis of Alzheimer's can only be made after a complete diagnostic workup rules out any other possible cause for the person's symptoms.

Last time she scored 7(I think it was near the end of August)!  Daryl has given her this test ever since she was diagnosed! 

Call for PLACEMENT has arrived(3 weeks ago)......apparently it's going to be denied!

update to follow

Got a phone call tonight..........happy for that!

It seems Mom will have a lady come on days when homecare isn't there. She will come in the afternoon for a couple of hours........hopefully this will turn out good.......I'm sure it will, and if it doesn't it can be easily changed, thankful for that!

what do you do when.....

1. someone continually refuses your help?
2. refuses to communicate
3. refuses to co-operate and in the process tells you that if you don't like it the way he wants to stay out of it.....nothing is open for discussion? 
   
4. someone doesn't care what anyone else thinks?